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05-14-2007

OK! So my friend and I convened in my small dorm room (dog like kennel of a room) and this is what we came up with:

It is foolish to break a restraining order especially when you are 18 and it will be on your record forever. Don’t ever fuck with the law, unless you are street racing hehe. You will do her no good if you are in jail (I don’t really know what happens if you violate an order, but any ways) and it will just give her parents another excuse for her not to be with you. Respect her parents wishes, even though they seem a little messed up right now, don’t be ageist.

Don’t rush into marriage. I’m 18 and am in a committed relationship, but its foolish to get married so young. I see some disillusionment in you because you want to get married so young. If you are truly in love timing does not matter. Wait until you are independent, have move out and live by yourself for a few year and have finished school and have a secured job. You need to experience adulthood by yourself before sharing your life with others. This is only to protect you from simply a burn out form a lack of coping skills. Marriage requires a level of maturity that will only come with time, wisdom, patience and evaluation of oneself.

Another thing is no matter how much you don’t want it to; your relationship is going to change from this situation. Are you still dealing with infatuation? You need to mature your relationship to a committed relationship, consummate love, realistic ambitions and a pragmatic relationship. Her parents are judging your relationship as naive behavior. This is not intended to be demonstrative towards you, but it is simply the stage you are in.

Take the last 38 days to reflective upon yourself and your girlfriend and where your love comes from; why you love her. It is wise to understand superficiality in your relationship and understand that this is only because of your age.

I am not saying that you can not continue your relationship with her, I hope for the best for both of you as individuals. I am offering you the advice of my friend and I so you can acquire another point of view from two fucking amazing, colligate young woman (one of whom drives a freakin’ hot car hehe).

But really think about it…

(Sorry for the weird words but this is from psychology and nursing major point of view…)

05-14-2007	#16
MitsuChick Guest Tournaments Won: 6 Posts: n/a	Re: What would you do in this situation OK! So my friend and I convened in my small dorm room (dog like kennel of a room) and this is what we came up with: It is foolish to break a restraining order especially when you are 18 and it will be on your record forever. Don’t ever fuck with the law, unless you are street racing hehe. You will do her no good if you are in jail (I don’t really know what happens if you violate an order, but any ways) and it will just give her parents another excuse for her not to be with you. Respect her parents wishes, even though they seem a little messed up right now, don’t be ageist. Don’t rush into marriage. I’m 18 and am in a committed relationship, but its foolish to get married so young. I see some disillusionment in you because you want to get married so young. If you are truly in love timing does not matter. Wait until you are independent, have move out and live by yourself for a few year and have finished school and have a secured job. You need to experience adulthood by yourself before sharing your life with others. This is only to protect you from simply a burn out form a lack of coping skills. Marriage requires a level of maturity that will only come with time, wisdom, patience and evaluation of oneself. Another thing is no matter how much you don’t want it to; your relationship is going to change from this situation. Are you still dealing with infatuation? You need to mature your relationship to a committed relationship, consummate love, realistic ambitions and a pragmatic relationship. Her parents are judging your relationship as naive behavior. This is not intended to be demonstrative towards you, but it is simply the stage you are in. Take the last 38 days to reflective upon yourself and your girlfriend and where your love comes from; why you love her. It is wise to understand superficiality in your relationship and understand that this is only because of your age. I am not saying that you can not continue your relationship with her, I hope for the best for both of you as individuals. I am offering you the advice of my friend and I so you can acquire another point of view from two fucking amazing, colligate young woman (one of whom drives a freakin’ hot car hehe). But really think about it… (Sorry for the weird words but this is from psychology and nursing major point of view…)