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Originally Posted by EclipseGST

Slipping into my old ways? Just because I need some space to think about some things before I call Neil back doesnt mean I am slipping into my old ways. Nice try though.

Maybe you just have really poor communication skills? Why not call him and tell him that you need time to think about things instead of ignoring him? That is exactly what you used to do to other people, so it seems to be a pattern. You said you are trying to change, and this is probably the biggest thing you need to work on. People understand hardships and issues as long as you keep in contact with them.